This happens when you don't get good level help. The days of getting primary custody are gone if you think you are just because you are a woman! Fathers need to stand up for their children and spend the money to get equal shared custody with no child support.

I helped my two boys get equal custody. One was awarded a measly $37 a month for 5 kids! What a joke our judicial system is. The other doesn't pay child support as they have shared equal rights. I mean that. I told my son don't you give up.one day because that low life wants to collect child support. Pay the daycare and it will be worth it.