The local woman in this Article was held in that home for...

Sorry to hear. The people of Ontario have to continue to make noise. There are hundreds or thousands of victims in Ontario from the lawyers and their law society. Collusion is 100 % with no accountability. They have destroyed many lives shamelessly.

We are also victims in an on going l... access page ...

Sorry to hear. The people of Ontario have to continue to make noise. There are hundreds or thousands of victims in Ontario from the lawyers and their law society. Collusion is 100 % with no accountability. They have destroyed many lives shamelessly.

We are also victims in an on going legal battle

Dear Political Party that wants to talk about the fart in the room!!!

Why is there 49 million dollars for women's only programs?(which is great) but the only male only funding is for incarceration. Yet approximately 350 men in Alberta  committed suicide in 2016. How ... access page ...

Dear Political Party that wants to talk about the fart in the room!!!

Why is there 49 million dollars for women's only programs?(which is great) but the only male only funding is for incarceration. Yet approximately 350 men in Alberta  committed suicide in 2016. How many of those are at the hands of family law? Do you not see a problem?

WE AREN'T GOING ANYWHERE YOU MIGHT AS WELL LISTEN TO

At this point the Trudeau government is having a hard time with their new drug law. Part of the problem is development of roadside testers or roadside sobriety tests that would work in court. Blood tests taken after arrest for alcohol and drugs are still accepted in court.

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At this point the Trudeau government is having a hard time with their new drug law. Part of the problem is development of roadside testers or roadside sobriety tests that would work in court. Blood tests taken after arrest for alcohol and drugs are still accepted in court.

This update outlines the results of the Dunedin Study, (aka Dunedin Multidisciplinary Health & Development Study). It’s the largest life-long study in the world of children born in 1972 with data collected and analyzed for more than 40 years.

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Hi Vincent, I was never involved with the family court system but the justice system abused my family all the same.

From this I was able to see that their behaviour and tactics follow the pattern of narcissistic abuse. Our government has a big problem with using this a... access page ...

Hi Vincent, I was never involved with the family court system but the justice system abused my family all the same.

From this I was able to see that their behaviour and tactics follow the pattern of narcissistic abuse. Our government has a big problem with using this abuse and I am currently having an email fight with them. I will forward it to you when done.

But here is the file that in four pages gives people a good understanding of the abuse they are being subjected too.

Have a great day,


Narcissist tactics by DF McDonough


Introduction

Toxic behaviour it is very hard to identify early enough to save the target from suffering serious injury. It can be a terrifying and bewildering experience. Sadly, looking at the behaviour of western governments we see these tactics and techniques being used as a matter of routine. Politicians don't just lie! They create an illusion of a different reality and this is far more damaging than most people realize.

One personality disorder stands out as a master of abuse tactics. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is know as one of the most damaging personalities for people to be around. They are literally walking abuse dictionaries.

If you are being abused in some covert way. You can look through the list of abuses and see what combination you are experiencing. This also makes it easier to identify what type of anti social person is targeting you and for what purpose.

This short article aims to provide a condensed overview of this abuse. The hope is that a better understanding of the abuse games anti social people play can save some pain. This is just an introduction to a larger subject and you would be well advised to seek trusted help if you are being targeted. Further study would also be recommended!

Confronting the abuser with the abuse will be seen as an act of war! Proceed with caution, they have no boundaries! Boundaries can be reset without the perps agreement.

Their is one rule when dealing with Malignant Narcissists. "No contact, ever!".

Remove them from your lives and don't look back. They almost never change!


Isolation

This is an important element that every abuser must deal with in some way! An abusive partner may be very nice to your friends while sabotaging your friendships.

This isolates the target and allows the abuse to continue undetected. It is also a really important element in our happiness. Healthy relationships make us happy, unhealthy relationships can do serious damage!

“A sense of belonging,” by Dr. Kenneth Pelletier Stanford Center for Research and Disease Prevention, “appears to be a basic human need – as basic as food and shelter. In fact, social support may be one of the critical elements distinguishing those who remain healthy from those who become ill.”


Motivation

1. Narcissistic supply (needs to feel superior)
2. Money/prestige
3. Control of victims/events/reality
4. Project bad feelings away and onto their target Projected feelings

1. Disempowerment
2. Rage
3. Confusion
4. Sabotage
5. Fear
6. Shame Damage to the victim Narcissist Victim Syndrome (NVS) as defined by the DSM IV comprises of the following symptoms.

1. Anxiety
2. Depression
3. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)


Typical Targets

1. Low self esteme
2. Empathic
3. Isolated or easy to isolate tagets
4. Vunerable people (grieving, trusting, elderly, mentally ill, children and the poor)


Stages

1. Recon
2. Love bombing
3. Ideation
4. Information gathering
5. Gaining leverage
6. Isolation
7. Destabilization
8. Dependence
9. Destruction
10. Blame


Red flags

1. Empathy testing questions soon after being introduced
2. Too nice/fake
3. Little empathy themselves
4. Get nervous and evasive when asked empathy testing questions
5. Very manipulative
6. Very cruel
7. Needs to be in control
8. Needs to be recognized as superior
9. Greedy
10. Selfish
11. Insensitive
12. Boastful
13. Arrogant
14. Has someone they say terrible things about
15. Lie constantly even when caught red handed


Gaslighting
This is the most damaging and dangerous technique that abusers use! This technique literally drives people crazy! It can be deadly for both the victim and the abuser. The abuser is the most likely to be killed in this abuse as the victim feels completely helpless. Gaslighting can be used on its own to cause confusion if they are under attack or have been caught in the abuse. It is often used as a part of a planned coordinated attack against the target. But only after the target has been isolated fully.
Taken from Wikipedia: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting

"Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of mental abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory, perception, and sanity.[1][2] Instances may range from the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred, up to the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the
intention of disorienting the victim. The term owes its origin to the 1938 play Gas Light and its film adaptations. The term has been used in clinical and research literature.[3][4" The doubt is caused by repeatedly warping reality in these examples:

Arranging a meeting will start with a rambling discussion of where and when too meet. All options of venues and times being discussed to cause as much confusion as possible around the subject. The details will be settled on in a verbal non provable communication. You will turn up as planned only to have the person show up late and angrily accuse you of loosing you mind!

They will also move things that you were using. Ask you for it! Then claim you are loosing your mind because you can't remember where you put things!

CORE TECHNIQUES

Isolation (this is the key element)
Gaslighting (trying to convince someone that they are crazy)
Flip the script (blame the victim for the abuse)
Boundary testing
Warping reality
Injustice (to project rage)
Invalidation (they refuse to understand the obvious)
Triangulation (the get others involved in the abuse to disguise the source)

COMMON TECHNIQUES

The decision (the conditioning of children to play the game)
Destructive conditioning (sabotaging someone's ability to work or enjoy an activity)
Parental alienation (a great source of pain is a great source of narcissistic supply)
Covert assault (using triangulation or sabotage normally)
Encouraging disregard for law and morals to use as blackmail later
Bait and fain innocence (confusion tactics)
Public humiliation (isolation and shame)
Shaming (projected guilt and shame)
Shock tactics (destabilization and fear)
Stalking (disempowering with projected fear)
Forgive and forget (they need you to forget so they can do it again)
Covert and overt threats (projected fear, injustice and rage)
Name calling (redefining you, they are trapped at a child's level of maturity)
Preemptive defence (talk of kind actions to erode personal defences of targets)
Narcissistic rage (when feeling backed into a corner)
Intimidation (fear and disempower int)
Nitpicking and moving the goal posts (confusion, sabotage and anxiety)
Love bombing (grooming a new target)
Aggressive jabs disguised as jokes (projected rage)
Condescending sarcasm and patronizing tone (disempowering and projected rage)
Cognitive dissonance (a massive contradiction that has the result of causing
confusion)
Fake sensitivity, play dumb and disappearing memories (yes or no questions will be answered "I don't remember!")
Nonsense conversations from hell (confusion tactics)
Deliberately misrepresenting/redefining your thoughts and feelings
Withholding or destroying property (to project rage and disempower)
Generalizations and blanket statements
Changing the subject to evade accountability (confusion tactics)

July 15th, 2016

Links to attachment(s): .pdf
brainsyntax.com/David_McDonough_Gov_abuse_brainsyntax.pdf

I could use some advice, actually I could use a lawyer who won't back down, yet, the advice I seek might be more along the lines of someone or something to convince me to comply!

I cannot reconcile within me to fill out the Statement of Finances that MEP has issued and demanded that I do ... access page ...

I could use some advice, actually I could use a lawyer who won't back down, yet, the advice I seek might be more along the lines of someone or something to convince me to comply!

I cannot reconcile within me to fill out the Statement of Finances that MEP has issued and demanded that I do and have notarized. The threat of fines and prosecution makes me only more stubborn! Are they wanting this to validate an increase to what they already have seized or to find an equitable balance that is sustainable and support their claim that they wish to "work with me"? My sense is that, they want it all.

My family support urges me to comply and they say, it won't go away until you do. I don't believe that it will regardless of what I do.

There is no custody agreement, arrangement nor order by the court concerning this. All that is court ordered is MEP. I never agreed to "her" having primary residence and day to day care, and, even when I did have a lawyer, my claims were never heard and pushed behind her claims for money, or, her lawyer would say, oh I am on holidays or, we aren't going to discuss this, etc. etc..

There has been a presumption, based on nothing other than, other than nothing I can determine anyways, that, she is the mother. This is where I balk and slide into revolt! I will have to set aside my beliefs and integrity and become someone I am not if I comply! Ouch!!!

I would love to find the, "silver bullet", to have tossed, her every claim, but, I am running out of time!

On a side note, let it be known, I do not take issue with the financial support of my children in a Shared Custody, 50/50 Equal Parenting regime. What I take offence to is the presumption that my children are better off in a one biological parent family and that they have no rights to have me equal in their daily lives! In light of this, and, as well let it be known, I have no sense that I am in arrears, I do not recognize this claim! I have said it a million times and I stand vehemently beside it... "How can it be determined what is owed until it is determined whom it is owed to?" I was playing their "game" right from the onset of Separation, providing Child Support, but, frustration set in quick with the stall and stymie by the opposition and I stopped!

As I stated previously about my integrity, I will not forsake it, so, deception is out of the question, lies and lying is what brought my, gag, wife to the ugly person that she is and I will not sleep in the gutter with her, puke!

My options are few and none are appealing! My, "get outta Dodge" duffle bag is mostly packed but I wonder if I can survive in the wild!? I might choose incarceration if I could ensure my stay be in solitary confinement, raped and beaten, I do not look forward to! Suicide... Not an Option! Compliance and the dictation of my "life" by and because of my, barf, wife's say so (not an ex yet, paperwork still proclaims we are married), absolutely abhorrent and detestable!!!

I Love my children, no doubt and have ever only filed claim to co-parent equally! I could really care less about everything else that she alone proclaims she is "entitled" to, our home and possessions, despite my unwavering belief that this is a type of theft also!

I just really have no direction, no bulldog in my corner! Mr. Stephen Harper refuses to answer my questions. Mr. Peter Goldring passed the "buck" off onto Mr. Brian Mason. Mr. Mason's office, although and while his representative sounds sympathetic and states a sort of liaison between myself, MEP and Legal Aid, who BTW, has denied me service after I fired the, stuttering, barely able to speak English, vomit, lawyer, still pronounces an impotence to do anything, another passing off of responsibility or accountability!

I was ready, willing, able and capable of sustaining a second viable home for myself and children in August of 2012, a mere two months after Separation. I am now penniless, existing in my mother's basement, I have defaulted on every financial dealing and credit, everything is in collections, yadda yadda yadda!

The noose is tightening... HELP!

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Rob Kruyt I understand your story completely. This business of a combative spouse destroys families. MEP is relentless in their abuse of you to get money. There must be limits on it but right now there is none. We have to change this whole scene and that is a marathon that will take a lot of effort from a lot of people.

Right now, for you, if there's no custody agreement why not just bring your kids in with you and force the issue. If you're broke can you get legal aid and apply for reduced child support. If the kids are with you, like likely you don't pay child support.

This is all very emasculating and very hard to manage. The trick is to be willing to go to any length and focus on what do your kids need and want.

I'm willing to talk on the phone. I don't have all the answers but I'm willing to listen and offer help.


Robert T Strickland The silver bullet is lead.
Sorry.


Anthony Devin Trondson thank you. i have already tried to force the custody issue two months after separation. i was assualted in my home while the children were Child Snatched (283.1 in the criminal code of canada), which I have very little doubt was conspired with the assist of the Edmonton city Police, arrested and the case dismissed after contradictory and biased testimony from my spouse, but, not before PTSD set in and the stress and worry of being incarcerated for 5 years took hold of my mind! I have just emailed a letter to Peter MacKay whom the office of Brian Mason suggested I speak to as well I have posted a copy here in FB-land.


Rob Kruyt Do keep writing letters. Talk to people who have been through what you're going through. You cannot be jailed for having your kids. I know what its like to have my ex harass me with unwarranted calls to police. Even after the police stated that her calls were ALL without merit a family court judge still gave her a pass on it.

False rape allegation if proven false the accuser should be made to pay a penalty not only for emotional damages caused/inflicted but for impugning and damaging the reputation of the falsely accused, but also for impacting detrimentally the falsely accused ability to earn a salary through the vio... access page ...

False rape allegation if proven false the accuser should be made to pay a penalty not only for emotional damages caused/inflicted but for impugning and damaging the reputation of the falsely accused, but also for impacting detrimentally the falsely accused ability to earn a salary through the violations of slanderous untruths and being vindictively manipulated into a position of helpless victim and therefore unable to fullfill their familial obligations. YES I would have them accuser arrested charged and sued. Rape allegations especially false ones are hard core so a penalty must be applied.

Please something needs to be done soon, all these courts are taken too long ,our children are growing up and we're missing their childhood. The pain is too much and only death will ease our heartaches

Please something needs to be done soon, all these courts are taken too long ,our children are growing up and we're missing their childhood. The pain is too much and only death will ease our heartaches

One year ago yesterday I started both trials in family and criminal court. The stress both have caused my family is undue and inexcusable. I have been treated as if I committed a crime and like I am worthless to those who hold positional power to protect and uphold laws. I will never forget, nor ... access page ...

One year ago yesterday I started both trials in family and criminal court. The stress both have caused my family is undue and inexcusable. I have been treated as if I committed a crime and like I am worthless to those who hold positional power to protect and uphold laws. I will never forget, nor will I stop fighting until justice is truly served. I refuse to live my life feeling the weight of modern day oppression via family law. I have 29 years experience with this process which is sad considering I am only 34! Praying one of the media sources I contacted tonight will pick up dad's story, that's truly all I want for Christmas.

I have anxiety I feel oppressed stressed and I need some people have dealt with the same things. The same family law hurt, with a dash of misconstrued truth.

Source: August 24 2014
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I have anxiety I feel oppressed stressed and I need some people have dealt with the same things. The same family law hurt, with a dash of misconstrued truth.

Source: August 24 2014
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I dont know the first thing about getting my story out, hence why its taken this long. To actually put the series of events in order, it took me and my wife a day plus some. We are knee deep in paperwork as is so fb is almost not even used LOL anyway I was givin bad legal advise to not submitt a 80 some paragraph affidavit (back in april) that would prove the other party was lying under oath. So now that i rep myself i hold nothing back.

I feel abused by this whole situation and each orginization involved because of

1. gender bias

2. age bias

3. The fact this was basicly kidnapping and because I was 18 and DIDNT make that call about my mom because it was my MOM!!! (mentally not knowing i had todo this)

4. I was NEVER given the benefit of the doubt

5.I was arrested for breaching a court order of access, when proven threats and guns was affecting my daughter at school

6. CAS keeps writing me awesome letters saying im doing good and theres no danger to shannon from me or my home so i really dont understand the 81calls from the same person in regards to kiddos (ya think somebody would have noticed their all from the other party) to the best of my knowledge 10 plus calls to the police against me with said child in presence, there is a gross misuse of taxpaying money from someone who dosnot even work!

Meanwhile im working in the community and home as healthcare worker getting my money takin right from kiddos hands, and left to keep everything normal lol im amazing at adapting but im not longer going to let this go on! The child states she dosnt want to go sometimes and im all for the normal g-parent child relationship. Ive raised little one to have an opinion, ask questions, and go for it! The "hey ya call pick up kiddos and return her" like i had as achild would be amazing. It was that same lawyer that advised me to give someone with no custody as much access as a bio- parent.

So my question is what will contacting these people do and how can i do it?

Im sorry to rant btw...four years of this built up

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Together we are stronger against this malice by the Children's Societies. Join us, gain strength within this Solidarity. Every town in Ontario has hundreds of victims of CAS, alert them to join ranks 

Together we are stronger against this malice by the Children's Societies. Join us, gain strength within this Solidarity. Every town in Ontario has hundreds of victims of CAS, alert them to join ranks 

I am one happy father again ......one more boy to go ...I need to shut down this foster home and sue them for damages to all the children in her care 23 years serving Durham and working with corruption has to stop ....Laura Green I am coming for you ....You have made a living on others parents ch... access page ...

I am one happy father again ......one more boy to go ...I need to shut down this foster home and sue them for damages to all the children in her care 23 years serving Durham and working with corruption has to stop ....Laura Green I am coming for you ....You have made a living on others parents children now it's time to retire you from harming children....And ask DCAS if I quit when I am being pushed ...I will spend my life stopping pieces of shit like you .....

So for those of you that still think the Lev Tahor are ju...

This includes the “legal abuse” of parents who have been disenfranchised from their children’s lives subsequent to sole custody and primary residence judgements. Within an adversarial legal process, non-custodial parents are often subjected to shame and stigma, lack of access to... access page ...

This includes the “legal abuse” of parents who have been disenfranchised from their children’s lives subsequent to sole custody and primary residence judgements. Within an adversarial legal process, non-custodial parents are often subjected to shame and stigma, lack of access to their children, and devaluation of their role as parents.

And those who speak about the pain and woundedness in their lives are subjected to a mean-spirited cultural response, where their talk of woundedness is mocked. Parents who were highly involved and attached to their children and suddenly find themselves forecefully removed from their child's lives experience profound woundedness. Suicide rates are epidemic while they struggle to maintain a relationship with their children. Legal abuse hs been noted as a key factor in these cases.

Their sense of entitlement and material desires to win over the child (Step parents too), even not their own child trump their interest in the child's well-being The alienating "person" uses a combination of fear, lies, flattery and gratification to win over the child. Their desire to control the child is greater than their desire to nature the child. daniel and emily e.

Everyone must come forth with their stories. Its time to break down the walls of injustice in our family courts. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and those ripples build a current ... access page ...

Everyone must come forth with their stories. Its time to break down the walls of injustice in our family courts. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.- Senator Robert F. Kennedy