DENIAL Is where most people live. People who think we must have done something to deserve this. People who do not believe the children when the children say they are being abused where they are at. DENIAL is very confortable for people. Expecially when it comes to sexual abuse. Any child abu... access page ...

DENIAL Is where most people live. People who think we must have done something to deserve this. People who do not believe the children when the children say they are being abused where they are at. DENIAL is very confortable for people. Expecially when it comes to sexual abuse. Any child abuse. People go to denial. It's easy, warm, confortable place for people. It's warm like a pile of shit. People blame the victim and support the abusers and live in denial. Most of us have lots of friends and family who are in denial. If you do not, your very lucky. People do not want to admit that there government is not out for the best interest, well being of the children. People believed in Hitler for a long time. People want to believe that the system, the courts, the police, the government is doing what's in the children's best interest. People believe this even when the truth is right in front of their face. People do not want to believe the truth. Not when the truth is evil, frightening, or scary. People want to pretend everything is just fine. It is mentally hard to realize good children are taken and it is hard to swallow. But it's the facts and it's the truth. But humans just love DENIAL

Alright so since my x got the house I paid for, me and my parents, we had it before I met my x. I had a house, I had 2 jobs and he was being evicted from his apartment. But courts gave him my house that he paid 0 for and gave him our only 2 cars, and he got my babies ( which is the most devastati... access page ...

Alright so since my x got the house I paid for, me and my parents, we had it before I met my x. I had a house, I had 2 jobs and he was being evicted from his apartment. But courts gave him my house that he paid 0 for and gave him our only 2 cars, and he got my babies ( which is the most devastating ) he could keep it all for me to see my babies. But I became homeless, carless, jobless because I was a stay at home mom and I'm having a hard time starting over with nothing. And being kinda depressed. I need to move on but its so hard to start over.

Source: Parents who lost custody of children for no reason what so ever at all.
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This group is for anyone who has lost their child for no reason what so ever at all. For parents who were loving, caring, compassionate, good, wonderful parents who lost their kids from nothing but lies. Parents who do not have their children from no falt of their own. Please try to be overly sensitive in your comments. Try to understand people are very sensitive about this topic. Some things can be misinterpreted by mistake. Lets not blame men or women. If someone gets upset by your comments don't take it personal, realize what a traumatic thing this is and how it can distort our perception. Some may be very overly sensitive. Try not to comment anything that can possibly be offensive. Lets give support, love, hope, compassion, friendship, and advice in the most loving way possible. I realize some people can be triggered very easily. So lets try to be as compassionate as possible. Thank you. We all cry together. If anyone comments a rude, disrespectfull, hurtful comment, pm me and I will delete them.
Women do not bash men, men do not bash women please. Women if you hate men leave this group and men if you hate women leave this group.

I SHOULD HAVE NEVER HAD MY KIDS TAKEN AWAY!!!! I was the better parent. My x got full custody in divorce with lies. Their was no abuse or neglect from me of any kind or anything neer it. Its been almost 5 years!!! I'm so angry. I see my kids twice a month. I am so angry. I'm not done fighting!!!!... access page ...

I SHOULD HAVE NEVER HAD MY KIDS TAKEN AWAY!!!! I was the better parent. My x got full custody in divorce with lies. Their was no abuse or neglect from me of any kind or anything neer it. Its been almost 5 years!!! I'm so angry. I see my kids twice a month. I am so angry. I'm not done fighting!!!!!! I'm so sick of this. My family saw how I was the better parent by far and my family wants to stay out of it. I cannot get then to help me. How can family sit by and not help? Doing nothing is helping the other side. My kids are not safe where they are!!!!!


I filed a motion to take my x to court. I just went to court today, just now. My x and I had no lawyer..He had a good lawyer previous and got full custody. I asked for 50% custody today. The judge will notify us by mail of his decision. It was stressful having to listen to my x husbands lies. The friend of court believes his lies. I have documentation that I have had 4 years of counseling, passed all drug and alcohol tests. I don't drink or do drugs. I'm the better parent. I have always been the better parent. He just wants control. I told the judge that. So well see what happens. If I don't get my kids now that I'm working I will hire a lawyer if I have to. This is so stressful and frustrating. They think my x is wonderful perfect. Keeping kids from the other good loving parent is not wonderful. I'm fustrated and stressed.


I love my kids with all my hart, they are my life my smile my everything. I love to wake up in the middle of the night with my baby and get up at 6 am when my baby wakes me up. I love to see my kids smile and happy when I take them to the Zoo or greenField Village or when I take them to Kensington park Farm Center. I love takeing them to new places and watching them learn and their face light up. I love to teach my kids and watch them learn and grow. The best thing that ever happend to me is haveing kids I love being a mom I love my kids so much. It is the most wonderfull thing for me. I love it and I love them with all my hart and sole and my job is so much for them but to make sure they are safe and happy and just enjoy life as little ones. I could go on and on and say so much more.

I was very afraid to talk about this for years. Not anymore!!!!! My daughter, my 7 year old was sexually abused at my x husbands house. The man confessed and is in prison. My x said he had no idea it was happening. So courts give my x no blame or responsibility for inviting the man into the house to baby sit my kids, when I had a huge house at the time and was totally willing and capable of having my kids. So its not just emotional abuse on my kids. My divorce happend because my kids said there dad was abusive but courts took my kids and gave them to my x and said I was coaching my kids to say they were being sexual abused by their dad. He passed a lie detector. Funny thing is he invited his nephew to live their and the nephew confessed to molesting my kids but my x still gets full custody. Its beyond insanity.


What I dont understand is I asked all my family members to write me letters in court, I said, just be truthful and say how you have whitenesed me with my kids. Family members that I get along great wonderful with, they just refuse to get involved? Why? When my kids are being abused at my x husbands house, police documents prove it. I have always always been extra extremely fantastic loving caring mom. I don't drink, not ever. I don't do drugs, not ever. So why don't people want to help???????????? Is it fear??? Anyone else experience this?

Would anyone be interested in comming to my court date, I filed for 50% custady, no lawyer. I see them right now every other weekend. It's in Pontiac Michigan. All hugs welcome. Pm me if you wanna come. Love and hugs to all.


Judges are easily manipulated. Lawyers work for judges and other lawyers, not the one paying them. Judges favor lawyers that will get them more votes. Judges favor lawyers that their friends with. Lawyers make deals with other lawyers and judges behind your back.

What can help, what helped me is lots and lots of counseling. Group counseling, one on one counseling, aca meetings, alanon meetings, seeing a psychiatrist and getting on medication. This all is what I do. I have never wished harm on a child but I can see how this traumatic event can manifest in many different ways. I had panic attacks and depression. Get help because you deserve to be happy.

My babies were taken from me in divorce, family court. I can only see them every other weekend and I was, am, always was a safe loving educational supportive awsome fun mommy. My x got a good lawyer and lied lied lied to take everything in my life from me 4 years ago. I filled another motion. I g... access page ...

My babies were taken from me in divorce, family court. I can only see them every other weekend and I was, am, always was a safe loving educational supportive awsome fun mommy. My x got a good lawyer and lied lied lied to take everything in my life from me 4 years ago. I filled another motion. I go to court soon. My kids are neglected where they are now. I will never stop fighting. I do not drink or do drugs ever. Me my boyfriend and family are all very educated and loving people. But I need your support. Pm me, pray for me, any advice is helpful.

I assume you are dealing with similar things as me. I want my children safe and with me. Together we are stronger. Lets win this fight.