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I am from Alberta. Recently I have been falsely accused of abusing my children by my Ex. An officer contacted me asking me to come in to answer a few questions regarding the situation. CPS will be contacting me as well. I am now separated from my chi... access page ...

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I am from Alberta. Recently I have been falsely accused of abusing my children by my Ex. An officer contacted me asking me to come in to answer a few questions regarding the situation. CPS will be contacting me as well. I am now separated from my children because of this. As taking these allegations seriously, I spoke to my lawyer to seek how to defend myself against these false allegations. The lawyer stated for me to not speak to the police but to speak to CPS regarding this matter. I am a bit confused and concerned as to why I shouldn't speak to the police. I understand I have rights not to speak to police but I'm concerned that would be used against me in the future.

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I have a question I’m hoping you’ll post anonymously.



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I have a question I’m hoping you’ll post anonymously.



If parent is contacted by AHS as May of been in contact with a covid case, does it mean the child is to be quarantine and other parent denied access?

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Hi, please post anonymously..

My ex wife, is trying to file for divorce. She has all the resources to do so.

I can’t afford to retain a lawyer or even ready for divorce and it’s consequences now.

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My ex wife, is trying to file for divorce. She has all the resources to do so.

I can’t afford to retain a lawyer or even ready for divorce and it’s consequences now.

So, I received an email from her lawyer stating that I can choose to be served through email!!! or provide an address! I didn’t respond and I was thinking to delete that email account!

My question is, and please understand that I have more reasons to refuse to go through divorce right now, is it illegal to avoid being served at all costs or moving out of province? And what are the consequences? And since I’m declined proper humane time with my kids a long time ago I can’t afford to give her that right! Specially she’s married religiously for the second time and in a polygamous marriage and I can’t prove it!

Please advise. Thank you in advance.

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There is a child support order from the beginning, Fro was garnishing the money and giving it to the Mom. we hit a rough patch on 2014 and she decided to cut me some slack she stopped fro and we agreed on a lower amount. For the record we are up to ... access page ...

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There is a child support order from the beginning, Fro was garnishing the money and giving it to the Mom. we hit a rough patch on 2014 and she decided to cut me some slack she stopped fro and we agreed on a lower amount. For the record we are up to date on payments. The child of the family will be turning 18 at the end of the year and there is a good chance he won’t be attending school. ( the boy is lazy and just wants to play video games )

Since the child support will be coming to and end. Can she go back to court to get the back payment ? It was a verbal agreement so we don’t have anything in writing or can the boy turn around a ask for the back payment.?

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Hello. I am looking for valuable advise in following matters.

1. How to find out about any complaint/ charges by wife against me? I am outside Canada, is there a possibility of getting arrested on arrival? So I can plan and make arrangements before ... access page ...

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Hello. I am looking for valuable advise in following matters.

1. How to find out about any complaint/ charges by wife against me? I am outside Canada, is there a possibility of getting arrested on arrival? So I can plan and make arrangements before I travel back. (There is no history/ evidence of any violence other than any made up stories to hurt me.)

2. If there is no physical harm, threats, abuse or cops involved. How manipulating made up stories can harm me, if she pressed charges against me for abuse/ domestic violence?

3. When I can expect to see my child? with all the allegations she may have.

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Hello All,

Please I need your honest advice on some issues regarding my Custody and Access Issues with my Ex. My main questions are below at the bottom of this background story.

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Hello All,

Please I need your honest advice on some issues regarding my Custody and Access Issues with my Ex. My main questions are below at the bottom of this background story.

I was in an emotionally, toxic and physically abusive marriage for almost 3yrs 11months and we have been separated for 2 years now and have 5 year old and 2 year old. Unfortunately I never reported her several abuses to the police because I truly loved her and didn’t want her to get a criminal record. I have spent over $22,000 to my current lawyer due to multiple emails back and forth between my lawyer and my ex and case conferences and my ex just wants to drag this divorce forever and legalize me into debt to ruin me financially and also wants a one-sided equalization from me (take everything) even though she already transferred her own property to her mother solely. Quite alright they jointly owned that property and lived there together before I married her, however she decided to remove her name from the property by transferring it to her mother fully 5 months before our separation as part of her evil plans in order to hide assets as later found out that she’s been planning this marriage breakup for almost a year. She moved back into that property with her mother and our children after our separation, during our 4 years of marriage I was paying all the rents for our matrimonial apartment. She’s lying on the court documents to make it look like she’s in financial hardship and has nothing and coming after me for everything I have and claims that the house doesn’t belong to her even though the document I pull from on land Ontario clearly shows her name.

I really want to be part of our children’s life; however she keeps pushing for sole custody and asking for 3 times more the child support that I should be paying her. From the date of separation I have always consistently paid her child support through E-transfer (I have all the records)According to the table amount and never missed any payment I have always insisted on joint legal custody and access visitation rights because I believe the children need both parents. We now live almost 6 hours apart by driving as I work in a different city; however I have no issues driving to see them every 3-4 weeks on the weekends. Every single time she always comes up with ridiculous demands, terms and conditions just to make my access very difficult despite all my efforts to move on with my life and focus on our children and ignore the distractions she creates. She’s even asking the courts to register lien on my name and estate to ensure that even if I ever remarry or have other children in future, that everything I own must go to her and our current children and my future family shouldn’t get a dime when I pass away which is my she was trying to brainwash and indirectly force me to do a vasectomy just few weeks to our separation as a form of her control over my life and future. She’s more interested Money and control rather than the welfare and future We have been on this back and forth in the courts for almost 2 years now and looking like it’s never going to end because we can’t agree on simple things on custody, access and child support.

Nowadays I feel that my ex has been able to successfully manipulate my female lawyer who now seems to be very sympathetic and empathetic towards my ex. Sometime I feel my lawyer is subtly making to concede a lot to my ex’s demands, even with all my compromise my ex keeps coming up with more unreasonable demands. This drama is mentally exhausting me and causing me a lot of emotional stress and making it difficult for me to move on in my career, my life or even to get into a new relationship as all these drama leaves me drained and mostly feeling down. I’m now on high blood pressure medication as a result of all these drama and want to remain alive for myself and be there for our children as they grow up. I feel my ex is trying to force me back into the toxic marriage with her or simply destroy my future so that I won’t be able to move on and remarry and have other children.



What is the worst case scenario for me if I decide to surrender sole custody to her and just push for access/visitation and walk away from equalization? I don’t want to keep incurring more debt,I would rather use the $22,000 I have given my lawyer to invest in my children’s life through a trust or RESP than a total stranger.

I just want to be officially divorced from her and move on with my life and by happy again and want my mental sanity.

My lawyer said we can’t get divorced yet unless we come to an agreement on custody and child support.

How would giving up sole custody to my Ex affect my financial future and that of my new future family if I decide to settle down and have another child again by marriage or common law relationship?

Would getting a male lawyer to represent me work in my favour? (My sincere apologies if this offends anyone, I’m not sexist and don’t intend to disrespect female lawyers)I just noticed that my manipulative ex has a way of getting female lawyers to sympathize with her and my future and that of my children is at stack here?



I would like to get a recommendation for very good male lawyers that can represent me in New market Court.



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I have been fighting for joint custody of my child. My fiancé makes significantly more than I do. When we get married, will my ex be able to ask for my fiancé’s finances in order to get more child support?

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I have been fighting for joint custody of my child. My fiancé makes significantly more than I do. When we get married, will my ex be able to ask for my fiancé’s finances in order to get more child support?

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anonymously please....before mediation or divorce proceedings even begin can either spouse take the children from the other & move to a new residence?

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anonymously please....before mediation or divorce proceedings even begin can either spouse take the children from the other & move to a new residence?

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Hey - Recently one of Trudeau’s comments kind of caught my attention. His intentions were probably good but I don’t know if he realizes how many men are out there (both indigenous and non indigenous) the have been physically and or mentally abused in their former relationship. Some of this abuse h... access page ...

Hey - Recently one of Trudeau’s comments kind of caught my attention. His intentions were probably good but I don’t know if he realizes how many men are out there (both indigenous and non indigenous) the have been physically and or mentally abused in their former relationship. Some of this abuse has also reilted in homelessness for these me . Many men are typically to proud to admit they were abused physically. I would like to create a poll in the group that would if even anonymously ask these questions to the men 1) Were you physically abused? 2) Were you mentally abused? 3)Did you suffer from anxiety and depression as a result? 4) Were you afraid to call the police for fear of breaking up the family 5) Were you too embarrassed to ask your doctor for mental health help? 6) Were you afraid to defend yourself for fear that you would be charged with assault? 7) Did this abuse affect your job? 8) Do you still have anxiety from the abuse that you suffered.



Many men like me are able to hide the abuse from family and friends. I think if we posted an anonymous survey that more people would be apt to be truthful. What are your thought ???

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Hello everyone.



Please I need help from you all.

I need recommendations for a great male family lawyer who is Jewish and in the Greater Toronto preferably newmarket / York Region. I’m convinced my current lawye... access page ...

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Hello everyone.



Please I need help from you all.

I need recommendations for a great male family lawyer who is Jewish and in the Greater Toronto preferably newmarket / York Region. I’m convinced my current lawyer (female) is not particularly representing my interest.



My Ex is a social worker who knows how to manipulate the Canadian family law system. She has always been emotional, mentally, and physically abusive towards me. However, I never reported any of these issues to the police, because I loved her, and feared that a criminal record would destroy her career.



We separated in March 2018 and have since attended a Case conference and a Settlement Conference. A Trial Management conference was scheduled for earlier this week, however due to the Pandemic, the New market Court had to Close and I have been told that we won’t be getting a trial date until June or July 2020.



In the last 2 years, I have disclosed everything I own to my Ex for equalization purposes, however she keeps hiding Assets and bank accounts. She’s deliberating delaying and prolonging the divorce and equalization process by making a lot of unreasonable and unrealistic demands.She’s pushing for Sole Custody of both kids and a double of the child support I should be paying (based on the table amount).

She also transferred a property she had during the marriage to her mother just 6 months before the separation to hide her stake in the property in preparation to kicking me out.

She is self-represented and very familiar with the Canadian family court system, while I’m being represented. I cannot represent myself even if I wanted to as I’m dyslexic and she’s very much aware of this and even go as far as throwing multiple documents to overwhelm me.Her deliberate attempts to delay and prolong this process is however incurring more legal bills on my part. Currently, I have paid my lawyer $19,000 (CAD) over the last 6 months and still running into more debt, as we still cannot finalize divorce as a result of disagreement on Child Support, custody, and equalization.

I have always paid her the table child support since the date of separation even when I lost my job by interac and kept all the payment records and never missed a payment.



My observation is that my lawyer (female) is not pushing or stopping her at all and keeps indirectly advising me to concede on a lot of things.On many different occasions, I have compromised a lot in order to reach a settlement with Ex but this case just keeps dragging forever. Not only is this draining me financially, my mental and emotional health is at stake.



A relative suggested I propose a separation agreement and a settlement meeting outside the court to her instead of proceeding with a trial management conference. However, I don’t know if this will be of any advantage to me.

I don’t want to remain just desperate from my Ex,I want to be completely divorced from her.

Can a separation agreement make this happen?



All in all, my priority is to be divorced ASAP and to finalize on Child Support, Custody, and Equalization.I would rather invest in my children’s lives that to continue paying legal fees. I need my sanity and life back.

She’s very manipulative and a control freak and has also promised to wreck me financially and take up major chunk of all my future earnings for the rest of my life and do all she can to make it impossible for me to move on or ever have a new family and happy life despite the fact that she kicked me out of the marriage and asked for divorce because I asked for Visitation Access to our children because I refused to let her keep controlling me.



Advices and recommendations are welcome please.



Thank you.

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Could you please post this anonymously? We're in the midst of a high-conflict situation with step-daughter's mom and we don't want her to know we've posted this. We are concerned that step-daughter's mom will withhold my her once she goes to her for her week of parenting time.

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Could you please post this anonymously? We're in the midst of a high-conflict situation with step-daughter's mom and we don't want her to know we've posted this. We are concerned that step-daughter's mom will withhold my her once she goes to her for her week of parenting time.

Have you heard if in these situations the courts will hear an emergency request for any parent withholding? Our lawyer said there's nothing we can do, but we've read news reports that in some emergency situations family court will hear the request.

We're really worried about her being withheld from Dad for weeks and using the pandemic as a reason.

Thanks for any advice

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*anonymous* I know this is a father's rights group first and foremost.. My gf was forced to sign her kid away to her ex's cousin (or be homeless, etc) she was 17-18 at the time. Her ex had been allowed to have the kid for visits.. has zero fathers rights he signed then away as well ( he was 12-23... access page ...

*anonymous* I know this is a father's rights group first and foremost.. My gf was forced to sign her kid away to her ex's cousin (or be homeless, etc) she was 17-18 at the time. Her ex had been allowed to have the kid for visits.. has zero fathers rights he signed then away as well ( he was 12-23 when he signed off on it) Long story short.. he's being allowed visits to the child.. but she's being left out... She desperately regrets ever giving the kid away.. it's not about getting him back.. but Just being allowed to see the child like the adopted parents are giving to the ( biological father ) ( who technically is their cousin)

Is there anything at all that can be done? It's really chewing her up inside.. especially when her ex posts pics of him with the kid. On Instagram at his home. He ignores the messages of the biological mother. And the adopted parents are allowing the bio daddy..

               

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I’ll go back to Family Day 2019. We drop off my boyfriends son after our weekend with him in the afternoon. Later that evening the mother texts my boyfriend wanting to discuss FUTURE support for their son. She never mentioned anything about money, but af... access page ...

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I’ll go back to Family Day 2019. We drop off my boyfriends son after our weekend with him in the afternoon. Later that evening the mother texts my boyfriend wanting to discuss FUTURE support for their son. She never mentioned anything about money, but after their history (she cheated on him and he doesn’t trust her) my boyfriend asked many times for her to email him what she was thinking. I know for a fact had she asked for what I’m going to get into she knew he’d have flipped so she wouldn’t have been wanting this from the get go.

Please keep in mind, from the beginning the two parents were coparenting well. Mother was always aware of his income, whether he sent her the notice of assessment, or told her what his income was. When the order was made in 2013 my boyfriends income was $64,000 but when they divorced they agreed she’d keep the house and all contents, including custody of child and she agreed to a non table amount based on income of $50,000 (again keep in mind his actual income was $64,000 and she signed off on it).

After repeated requests to talk and repeated replies ‘please Email me what it is you’d like to discuss before we talk’ it became impossible to have any sort of civil conversation with her. It has come to our attention the signs of a narcissist and we have come to the conclusion that’s exactly what is coming next.

Sept 2019 she asked for three years of my boyfriends tax assessments. He didn’t have them because he had sent them to her. She claims he hasn’t told her about any change in income since 2014. Lies. November 2019 he receives a letter from her lawyer telling him he owes over $10,000 in back support because he REFUSED to provide his assessments! She knew all along what his income was. She knew he made more than $50,000 from day one but now she’s trying to get the difference between his income of $50,000 to $76,000 and we are extremely stressed out.

How do we fight this!? He has no problem paying table amount but holding onto this change in income for three years and ONLY when there’s a huge falling out she goes for his throat? Neither of them can prove they did or didn’t send/receive because everything was so easy going until February 2019. He never refused to ever send anything. We are completely screwed if she wins. I am unemployed and no assistance of any kind but I do do little jobs from home to make money. My boyfriend does not think this is fair - she’s acting in a malicious manner and now it is affecting his relationship with his son. He is 15.

They have a case conference March 3 and I guess will be self representing because we can’t afford a $3500 retainer.

Anyone ever go through this? Any suggestions or advice would be muchly appreciated. Please no ‘you’re screwed’ comments because if she gets away with this we are very much well aware.

She emailed me ‘I don’t go out of my way to hurt or screw you guys over’


Coulda fooled me!

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looking for advice I have 50/50

My ex quite her job as we were making about the same

She now make literally 1/4 the amount I do and is trying to get the financial split me paying 75% her 25%

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looking for advice I have 50/50

My ex quite her job as we were making about the same

She now make literally 1/4 the amount I do and is trying to get the financial split me paying 75% her 25%

She puts the kids in everything she can as she knows that I have to pay more and nobody cares lawyers judges

But it’s breaking my bank

And can’t afford to live my self and provide for the kids when I have them.

She has made my life a living hell and gets away with everything.

Have even had Cfs say on certain things that if I did those things I would have the kids removed from me but yet she gets away with it

Our system is so against males being in there kids life’s expecially If there divorced!

50/50 don’t mean nothing!!!

Ya I have a lawyer!!!

But it’s still the same bs



How can I get out of some of these extra expenses

Expecially if I don’t even agree to them

Ya I support my kids in sport extra activities but it come to much is to much

How many thousands do you have to spend on each kid to play games





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RE: Sept 2nd Post regarding questionnaire and supposed MP contact(s)



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RE: Sept 2nd Post regarding questionnaire and supposed MP contact(s)



I personally know an MP new to the house but he is a CPC and unless that party is in power I expect no real help in that corner unless we can do something that crosses party lines.



An idea that I have to make real change in the party is trying to change policy at the party level regarding appointments in general but with an aim to targeting judges who are ALL appointed by the party in power at the time. My judge was a failed PC candidate in the Kingston riding (EDA) but the harper government appointed him as a judge in family court as a reward.

To be clear he had absolutely no civil or family law experience. His career was with the RCMP posted to Washington DC to give advice re criminal matters. My plan is to direct, through my EDA (Electoral District Association), that the party changes it's policy on appointments. Unfortunately this will mean hundreds of single father will have to join their EDAs and be involved enough to swing the vote at the various party policy conventions.



Gavin Cross



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I was married to an abusive social worker for 4 years,who has been manipulating the system we have a 4.5 year old daughter and a 1.5 year old son,however we separated March 2018 and I have been to a case conference in June 2019 with a lawyer who didn’t fig... access page ...

I want to be Anonymous.

I was married to an abusive social worker for 4 years,who has been manipulating the system we have a 4.5 year old daughter and a 1.5 year old son,however we separated March 2018 and I have been to a case conference in June 2019 with a lawyer who didn’t fight for me in court and now I got another lawyer in October 2019 asked us to adjourn the settle conference to January 2020.

However this new lawyer seem to been draining me financially I’m already over 20k in debt with the new lawyer and it looks like most of these lawyers wants the case to go on forever. I just want to move on and be alive so that I can be there for my children.

Its been mental draining for me in the last 2 years. I just want to be divorced from her at this point ,I’m asking for joint legal custody but my ex wants Sole custody and doing everything to cripple my finance I think the fact we can’t agree on Custody is slowing down everything ,I love our children however I don’t want this battle to kill me,I want to be alive.

What is the worst case scenario if I give up sole Custody and ask for visitations only.

Does it give my ex the power to relocate anywhere?

Does it give her the power to rack up extraordinary expenses and force me to pay?



I’m very feed up as I think the new lawyer is all about prolonging the process and making more money from me.

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I have been documenting everything that has been happening with my daughter/her mother. Iam going through with A motion to Change for Access. In the affidavit how much information should I be submitting? What I mean is I have everything from times picked up how long visits, ... access page ...

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I have been documenting everything that has been happening with my daughter/her mother. Iam going through with A motion to Change for Access. In the affidavit how much information should I be submitting? What I mean is I have everything from times picked up how long visits, exes fly what what said and by who, you excuses why my daughter won’t visit after having a great visit the time before.

I’m also asking for every other weekend and Wednesday after school her mother’s proposal was 1 Saturday & 1 Sunday a month 11-5 at specific place of her choice and when ever 11 year old wants to visit. I’m just unsure what all to include in the motion & affidavit.


Thanks for your time

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I just have a question, there is no custody agreement between me and my ex and she is holding my daughter from me cause she suspects I've done drugs. I have a Dr drug test to prove I haven't and now wants to call cas to do a walk threw before she'll allow me to take my daughter all I want is to ... access page ...

I just have a question, there is no custody agreement between me and my ex and she is holding my daughter from me cause she suspects I've done drugs. I have a Dr drug test to prove I haven't and now wants to call cas to do a walk threw before she'll allow me to take my daughter all I want is to see her. What can I do

Anonymous

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Is there any precedent or does anyone have personal experience with children who play in the OHL and leave the custodial parent's home (I have joint custody) and live with a billet family in another city. My son is essentially a semi-professional at... access page ...

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Is there any precedent or does anyone have personal experience with children who play in the OHL and leave the custodial parent's home (I have joint custody) and live with a billet family in another city. My son is essentially a semi-professional athlete, who is collecting a $400/month stipend from the OHL and whose living expenses, (room and board, meals, equipment etc) are covered by the team and/or host family. Is it warranted for my child support payment to be reduced (not entirely eliminated as there are other children in the marriage), particularly for the months in which he is living away?



Also, after he turns 18, what are the child support obligations? He will likely return home in the summer and take some post-secondary classes (1-3 at most) in the fall assuming he makes the team again. If he is playing in the OHL but is not a FULL time student, should there still be child support obligations for him? I'll always support my son when needed, but my issue is not knowing how this new circumstance will/won't affect the existing child support order.



If the order needs to be amended, is this a straight forward process (with precedent) or will it get debated forever between the lawyers?

Thanks in advance.

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In 2013, when we lived together, my wife stole children from our house to another jurisdiction. This was a surreal experience. She claimed emotional abuse etc to justify it with the family.

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In 2013, when we lived together, my wife stole children from our house to another jurisdiction. This was a surreal experience. She claimed emotional abuse etc to justify it with the family.

Police told me, "She is the mother, she has a right to travel." No one cared about details.

It took me several years of flights and money and since the child did not like it with her and wanted to be with me, I brought them back. The child was happy going to school etc. And then the mother decided to hire lawyers and they started calling me, threatening with police and child removal and for me to agree to some kinda deal.

I hired "the best" lawyers, as I naively believed in the profession. I spent about 40k on them. They knew that I would win, but as soon as they learned that I had limited resources, they told me to sign the deal that I could not afford, which they knew. No one cared that she lied about her income, that she was violent with children, that she was lying in ontario court in her submissions, that she stole children etc. I signed. So I had full custody and had to pay support payments to the mother. I then took it back to court for child concerns that they shared with me and because the mother with her counsel lied and misrepresented their case in Ontario court to exert pressure on me. I did not hire any lawyer this time. The previous lawyer of mine said, "I know you did not want to sign it," "my hour is worth $495 can you borrow from someone?"

When before the judge I showed where they lied and the laws about which they lied, that there were never any court hearings against me, where they inserted words that did not exist, that there was fake criminal case against me etc., that her lawyer called and threatened me repeatedly to have me sign their deal during Ontario court proceedings. The judge looked at me an said, "she has a lawyer and her lawyer has more obligation before the court then before the client, the mother, so I believe the lawyer." then the judge called me unreasonable, ordered to pay her court expenses and threatened that next time they could ask court for an order that I act in bad faith.

I filed for consumer proposal and before filling I emailed local MP and got no response.

That's where I am now. I have full custody. I am a good parent. I work full time plus part-time when time allows. I spend all my time with the child. I do sports. Child does sports, and other activities. The child is happy. I pay for all expenses. I pay for mother to travel an stay with child, I pay for child's travel to stay with mother. I pay for proposal. I pay for rent, I pay for car, I pay for food, I pay for clothes, I pay for sports etc. I cut my hair myself, I save on everything for myself. The answer that I get, "but you signed."

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My son and his ex are having a baby in april. They are no longer togethcer.. she is threatening him that if he doesnt spend time with her that he cant see the baby... that she wont even tell him when the baby is born or put him on the birth certificate so that he ... access page ...

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My son and his ex are having a baby in april. They are no longer togethcer.. she is threatening him that if he doesnt spend time with her that he cant see the baby... that she wont even tell him when the baby is born or put him on the birth certificate so that he cant see the baby.. he is so lost and upset that I dont know what to do anymore.. she has a kid by another guy and the guy is no longer in the picture.. he walked away during pregnancy and I'm pretty sure this is why he walked away as well... how are women getting away with this? What steps should he be taking. He is 22 years old and so confused

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