Have you considered asking for some form of shared custody or a fixed visitation period? Sounds like you’re leaving too much decision making in her hands

   

Sounds like my ex. Only follows the parts of the parenting order that suit her. There’s a special place in hell for women like this.

   

Sorry to hear that, my ex did the same I said I would not play that game. She had me arrested many times for try to talk to her. I haven't seen or even know where he is or why he his being deprived of his father. Take her to court they all say, it's the only way. I have been told by BAR associates; it's finicky, it's broken, that's disgusting, lawyer hate lawyers, but still we are forced to go along with this nonsense or never associate with our boys and girls again. There has to be a better way.

   

I know this might be a little comfort but just trust me those kids will know who is making them feel bad and who is pulling them away from a loving parents. I know it’s so hard to deal with but just always make sure when she does that that you say I’m sorry I love you I’ll see you soon and try not to cry. But yes you need to go file for a police enforcement clause to be added to your court order or this will continue to happen