The woman who does that to the man have no respect for themself no respect for the father and most definitely they have no respect for their own kids. Regardless of the cause of the divorce the kids shouldn't be used as Shields to get back at the father. The only thing you're doing is creating st... access page ...

The woman who does that to the man have no respect for themself no respect for the father and most definitely they have no respect for their own kids. Regardless of the cause of the divorce the kids shouldn't be used as Shields to get back at the father. The only thing you're doing is creating stress and penalizing the kids. Just because you want to get revenge and get even with your husband doesn't mean that the children has to pay. if we would do this to you guys there would be a whole lot of women bitching nagging and pissed off at us so why the hell are you giving yourself the right to do this to the father of your own child smart the hell up

File a complaint with the law society. if in Manitoba, Law Society of Manitoba http://www.lawsociety.mb.ca/

File a complaint with the law society. if in Manitoba, Law Society of Manitoba http://www.lawsociety.mb.ca/

With the Code of Conducts in mind and the Judicial Councils role with respect to public complaints involving Judicial Officers also including the statutory objective of improving the quality of judicial service.  The improvement of overall quality of the judicial service – brings my co... access page ...

With the Code of Conducts in mind and the Judicial Councils role with respect to public complaints involving Judicial Officers also including the statutory objective of improving the quality of judicial service.  The improvement of overall quality of the judicial service – brings my complaint to light.

Madam Justice Beames closed the “contempt of court” order and found me to pay court costs of $2500.  The case was not complete in my mind it was not over – my rights had not been met – in the three telephone conferences with me the claimant and council for the respondent it was mentioned that the Pension Division of the final order paragraph 10, 11, and 12 were not complete – in other words I did everything I was to do in the Contempt of Court Order but the one thing that the Respondent had to do (ensure the Pension Division was complete) was not addressed before the file closed, as well as a complaint I had to Justice Beames on the professional misconduct of the respondents council due to her lying in the first telephone conference.  I was to secure mortgage financing, I approved, and this I did with Joel Olsteen with LendingMax a mortgage broker.  I emailed Ms. Lammers office the commitment to finance with details of Joel Olsteens name, address, phone number, fax number and email address, as well Joel Olsteen spoke to Ms. Lammers office on the phone regarding particulars of land transfer, lawyer/notary etc. of the transactions.  Ms. Lammers told Justice Beames that she had “no knowledge of a Joel Olsteen”, to make it look like I was not cooperating with the contempt order.   I was outraged that Rachel Lammers lied and Justice Beames told me to “keep records, emails and any proof”.  The file was closed before Justice Beames could even make her decision upon seeing my evidence that I collected on her order. 

Madam Justice did not care about me and did not care that a lawyer must not abuse the process of court by being motivated by malice and brought up solely for the purpose of injuring another party.  Lying to hurt me is not acceptable and this is the reason for my complaint.  To make me look bad in the eyes of the judge, it was without ethics and Madam Justice Beames appeared to not care. 

I feel that Madam Justice Beames did not due her due diligence to protect my public interest - justice was not afforded to me - and not the interest of the lawyers and should always be the primary focus.  The legal profession is to take seriously the commitment to maintain high ethical standards and demonstrate personal integrity.  Lying to a judge and the judge not holding that individual accountable does not conform to codes of conduct. 

As it turns out the Pension Division once I got information back from the pension administrator is more serious than previously thought - the figures do not match the affidavit and there appears to be misrepresentation and or fraud which renders a consent order null and void.  Madame Justice Beames heard many times from me my complaints of deceitful and deceptive conduct that was used to manipulate me and to make me agree to a consent order that was ill begotten and now turns out is fraudulent. 

By shutting me out like that makes it appear not fair and the duty of judges is to strive to sustain and enhance public confidence in the judiciary system and the prevention of abuse.  Now, I am stuck in this system without any justice again over and over.  All I have is my voice.   The system is a money grab it loves people like me “a cog in the wheel”.  If legal issues could be minimized than that could mean jobs, loss of money, follow the money trail right to the divorce lawyer?  No regard that these are real people, real children, real lives being damaged and compromised.  No it is the duty to society that this does not happen – this is why it is in court to protect both sides, and to have balance and fairness and to keep people out of the system.  To quite wasting resources.  I call enough. 

It is adding “insult to injury” when Madam Justice said to me in court when she dismissed my application “the law isn’t on your side today Ms. McIvor ” in response to my consent order to be set aside due to the Family Law Act of BC.   When I stated “it’s the law, I have the law on my side” Madam Justice Beames hit the “nail on the head” because the law has never been on my side right from the beginning because I have been discriminated against due to my lowly position.    In all matters, judges, lawyers, police and doctors have demonstrated bias in favor of the respondent with the high powered partner of a law firm divorce lawyer versus a stay at home mom whom homeschools her kids and has no access or control of any money, or a job.  It has been “David and Goliath”.

 Madam Beams has been well aware of the circumstances in this case where I have voiced equity and impartiality.  Judges should carry out their duties with appropriate consideration for all persons without discrimination and impartiality.  Judges must be impartial with respect to their decisions and decision making.  There was no evidence of caring how unfair it was “I didn’t meet the test” what test?  It is a state of mind and attitude and I was “thrown to the wolves”.  When that contempt of court order was brought down and opened up then Madam Justice Beames owed a duty to make sure all areas of the order were in place and were followed not just the respondents but for all parties.  Where is the balance?  Madam Justice Beames decision had tipped the scales so the other side came crashing down – I don’t understand how that is in line with integrity.  Madam Justice Beames was well aware of the health and wellbeing problems of my children – I have been in every jurisdiction in the registry all alone without counsel, it was not dealt in a fashion that seemed fair - ever.  Nobody even considered me or my children in these proceedings – the telephone conferences were scheduled at 9 am when my children are up and trying to get ready for school – coming into my room when I am on this phone call where I cannot even breath and seriously think I am having a heart attack because of being repeatedly threatened by the respondents council to get court fees and continually trying to get back up into court just to make more money – them witnessing  a contempt of court conference, it was like a gun was held to my head – abide by this fraudulent, unfair, misrepresented consent order that I was coerced into agreeing,  without having a clue what was going on in trial – or go straight to jail.  The whole two years in the judicial system frankly have been inhumane. 

In all matters, judges have the duty “not to hear or receive any representations, verbal or written in the absence or without knowledge of the other parties and or their counsel”.  If this is the case why then was Ms. Lammer allowed to enter email after the cut-off date – the morning before the last conference call?  There was emails back and forth that I knew nothing of.  I was really angry when I realized the rules of having all communication in on Nov 24 only held true to me but the same rules did not imply to the respondent and council.  It appeared shady and untruthful.  There needs to be the assurance that impartiality of the judiciary system extends to all involved and this is contrary. 

I am not in agreement of the costs and I should have had an opportunity to have a voice by email, the same opportunity that was given Ms. Lammers.   I resent having words put in my mouth – stating that I plead “poverty” against the court costs.  I opposed court costs due to undue hardship, mentally, physically and financially, there is no place I plead poverty.  This makes it sound frivolous and ridiculous – who could plead poverty when you are a person in my position that has equity in a home, a home that I am forced to keep for the ‘sake of the children’?  When there is a misrepresentation that is grounds for rescinding the consent order.  “Where one person makes a misrepresentation to another which has the object and result of inducing the other to enter into a contract, would be grounds for rescission as well as relief without alleging fraud”. (Codes of conduct).

Madame Justice Beames in my humble opinion closed this file so fast as to not have to deal with the inequity and complexity and the fact that the balance was off, there is no balance – charging me with court fees just adds “salt to the wound”, does not bring closure to this case – I have been denied Justice – I have the right to have justice and not to shut me out and deny me, it feels very discriminatory.   This just causes more costs to society bringing it back before the courts over and over – maybe this is the reason?  Would I ever have a fair trial without a lawyer? 

 Madam Justice Beames has the burden of knowing that she was leaving my family in turmoil and forsaken me.  If truly there was impartiality then she would have been interested in seeing the evidence supporting the accusation of a divorce lawyer lying to her in a contempt of court order,  or call it misrepresentation of facts or a common mistake, whatever is appropriate, but it should have been addressed.   Consent orders can be set down on the basis of fraud and embezzlement.  The Final Order paragraph 14 states “either party has liberty to apply for such directions and further Orders as may be necessary to facilitate and enforce the division of the Pension fairly.  Why could this have not been done before I had to pay $2500 in court costs?  I was forced to not comply with the consent order because it reeked of negligence and was ill begotten and now turns out misrepresented.  Therefore, the costs should not be my burden. 

The lawyers ink was written with my blood.  The Family Law Act says “full and true information”.  I feel badly abused by the courts, lawyers and judges and to Appeal you have to have money because you have the threat of court costs over your head like a gun – appeals are 98% unwinnable without a lawyer.  I have learned to believe that divorce lawyers are like pirates who lie and use no integrity to escalate the conflict and prolong the battle (1.5 years to trial) to increase billable hours.  Divorce is an industry that encourages injustice – for the money of course, if the divorce settlement is fair then nobody will come back to court ever again.  Secret to success find repeat customers.  If the divorce was fair truly fair then nobody would ever come back before the courts throughout the years.  The system is lucrative and monopolized. The legal profession has made an industry of divorce with little regard to the children.  Family Law should not be a business.  Keeping it fair means not signing unfair contracts and because I stood up and demanded to be treated equally I have been penalized and punished.  The courts in my case has stood up for injustice, inequality and discrimination.  I resent my family being injured due to a business that keeps lawyers driving new Lexus’s every year and has society believing that the system profits when families implode. 

The abuse that I and my children have suffered keeps the judges, the lawyers, the file clerks, the security guards, therapists, counsellors and police all in business, all on my burden.  My children left with gaping holes after going through a system that is supposed to help society – in fact is the opposite.  Broken homes and fractured relationships account for a debt to society that cannot be repaid so the damage should be minimized from the beginning – the system is to protect and not damage.  Thank you for your consideration for family law reform and I do not want to be a repeat customer. 

With the highest respect and sincerity

I ask that confidentiality is of the upmost importance, as it appears I am still going to be embroiled in the court system and do not want this complaint or complaints to other professional bodies that have been filed, held and used against me in a court of law or cause addition impartiality or have any kind of negative repercussion to myself or my children.

Canadian Judicial Council

Ottawa, Ontario

K1A 0W8

Fax:  613 288 1575

Complaint Re: The Honourable Madam Justice Beames

Salmon Arm Law Courts

File No:  14581

Twenty years ago in the year of 1995, I gave birth to a beautiful little girl and she was my life. Unfortunately- her father was very abusive man. One night when my daughter was couple of months old, her dad finally got to the final level in our relationship was killing me slowly. He strangled me... access page ...

Twenty years ago in the year of 1995, I gave birth to a beautiful little girl and she was my life. Unfortunately- her father was very abusive man. One night when my daughter was couple of months old, her dad finally got to the final level in our relationship was killing me slowly. He strangled me and I nearly died that night. I was blacking out, and the white colour came slowly. All of sudden, my daughter woke up and was screaming & was crying hard. It spooked him and he let go of me. Black became colour again. I looked around and saw I was still alive. The father told me to get the baby now… I ran to her and grabbed her out of her crib. Held her so close to me, and promised her that I will go. At 4 am in the morning- a friend drove by the house, and I grabbed my baby. Grabbed bottle and my wallet in my shorts on a cold night, and got in the car. She and her boyfriend drove me to women’s Shelter- dropped us off there… I was finally free from him and went into hiding for almost a year. I was on run and went to stay with my mother then stayed with few friends to avoid him finding us. He was on hunt for me and I was always on move until one fateful night…

A month before her year old birthday- I was staying with a friend who rented her basement to me and my old friend which was my ex-boyfriend from school days. The person who rented basement to me soon became my worst nightmare. She was friends with my ex- the father to my baby and she reported us to him. They planned everything right up to the night that my daughter was taken away forever.. I ended up going with a friend for a dinner date which was 5 hours long- and I ended up wanting go back home to my little one. My baby was left in care of my old friend and he had his roommate s daughter to watch her for a bit while he goes out to get cigarettes from store up the street. The daughter was more than happy to watch my beautiful baby. While she was watching her, her mom which is the person who rented me out the basement called the daddy of my baby and told him that I abandoned her. The father came out to our friend’s house and called police on me. This all goes on while I was out on a dinner date for 5 hours. CAS came and took my little one away. My friend came back and saw police cars there. He was confused and went up to them. They did not ask him questions nor ask him who he was. They ignored him, and they were too busy dealing with cas and the daddy to my baby..

I came back to find her long gone and asked my friend what was going on.. He cried and cried- told me cas took her away.. Daddy was here for her.. I said what?!! The friend who rented out the basement to me kicked me out as soon as I got in the door… It was all so confusing and I never knew what went on. I packed my bag and left to live on streets. I had nowhere to go, I was on run for so long that I forgot a home to call my own home but I lived in fear of my ex-boyfriend who almost killed me was hunting us down…

I went to meeting with CAS and my mother in the room- they told me that they got information that I drank and partied, and was using drugs. They said that I left my daughter in basement with a plastic thing in her hand, and I never returned back ???? I had a babysitter and I returned to find her gone….. long gone……. I said I don’t drink or do drugs- I don’t party… Take my hair and my blood- it will prove to you that I don’t take any of those,, they refused!!!! I fought endlessly with them, and they refused to take my samples. I asked them to give my daughter back to me on what grounds? I told them that the father of my child isn’t stable and he abused me. They didn’t believe me and told me they will place my daughter with him because he is father to the child.. I begged them not to place my child with him because he will abuse and rape my daughter like the way he raped me and abused me… They didn’t listen….. They forced me to sign her up for adoption to prevent that from happening, and I refused for a while then gave in.. They said they will place my little girl with dad even though if I signed it … I was livid… I stormed out of the door and cried so hard… Left to seek for a lawyer, and got one..

She was the worst lawyer ever- she didn’t fight for me- she failed us and told me to sign the agreement between cas and the parents that the child remains to live with dad and that I have supervised access with her…

I had an apartment set up, and was in counselling. I had everything said to CAS s plan,and I did everything… The results haven’t changed… Nothing had changed… It was just same old story and nothing changed… The child remained to be in dad s care… Everytime I go over to get my kid- in order to see my kid according to dad – he have to have sex with me, and raped me everytime I said no..

I cried and cried then ended up on streets again... I stopped seeing my daughter for a month because of rapes I get from my ex – her dad… I saw poster on a wall one day saying BEAUTIFUL BC- I bought ticket at the next available travel agent and flew out west for two years.. Bought a ticket to return to see my daughter few months after living in BC. I stayed with a friend and went to visit my daughter – but the request was that I stay with him for two weeks… I stayed for two nights, and I got raped again. I was abused so badly that I booked a next flight back home to BC… I got home 5 days after all this eventful visit- I was in bad shape.. I decided to work and went to college there. I fought through my darkness and to get back to normal again. It was dark times… I moved back to Ontario after two years and decided to fight back. I went to court this time with money in my hand and got a lawyer. I got access to my daughter and continue to visit with her at supervised access centre then to a normal outing for a full day. Then a weekend came- we tried to work with dad to do house inspection, and he refused. We decided to continue the full day until we figure out what to do. We drove down there few times, and he never showed up at the same spot with my daughter. We called police and they couldn’t do anything since we don’t have his address. I called my lawyer and she said wait until she is 14..

We did wait until she was 14- but it was too late.. She was told all the lies about me and how unfit mother I was.. Saying that I threw her out of window, etc etc…. My daughter told me all about the lies that her dad and his family was filling in her head. I was shocked and told her it is not true.. I cried so many tears for so many years over her and to this day, I still do…

CAS killed us because I have no relationship with my daughter because she thinks I did not own up to my actions, which I did, but it was not my fault that I was on run to protect her and I… I loved her so much that I would do anything to hide from her daddy so I don’t want to be in dead body bag. My daughter and I to this day will always have rocky relationship.. She does not see me as her mom and she does not love me the way I love her.. I have learned to accept that and wanted CAS to pay the price for the damages they have done to her and I… CAS placed her with a terrible man who have mile long record of assaults and domestic violence relationships.. CAS placed her with a man who raped me for a living. CAS refused to take my samples to prove it in court that I am not a drinker or a drug addict. I fought and lawyer failed me. Law system failed me. CAS failed me.. They killed my daughter and I.. I want closure.. I want my files to be shared with my daughter and I want truth to be known… I want my daughter to know I love her to moon and beyond.. I still live in the moment of her sitting on my lap when she was baby- drinking her milk while I rock her to sleep. She was my everything and I love her so much… She was my girl.. my miracle and my love of life… CAS took all the memories we have away. I live with so little of memories with my daughter but so many bad ones with my ex and CAS…

I want CAS to pay the price… That’s all I want to see them pay the price for damage they have done to many families.. I know I am not alone, and I am still fighting to this day for my daughter to return to my arms. I still pray she will come home… She is 20 years old and I still pray she comes home to stay… I want justice to be done… Not fair to her and I that we lost 19 years of life together.

Put CAS to end… They don’t deserve to work for families. They hunt them like animals… We are dollar signs to them.

Thank you Jo...

A North Shore social services office is in lockdown over fears of a father embroiled in a child-custody battle.

A Crown prosecutor Tuesday outlined measures taken by Secwepemc Child & Family Services to protect staff from Frederick Philip Shupe.

All of them are expre... access page ...

A North Shore social services office is in lockdown over fears of a father embroiled in a child-custody battle.

A Crown prosecutor Tuesday outlined measures taken by Secwepemc Child & Family Services to protect staff from Frederick Philip Shupe.

All of them are expressing a real fear of Mr. Shupe,” said Crown lawyer Neil Flanagan. “I’ve been told the Sydney Avenue office is now in lockdown . . . . Workers are afraid of him.”

Shupe, 45, was convicted after trial on two counts of uttering threats. In the first instance he left a message on a social worker’s voicemail stating “he will haunt her until she dies,” Flanagan said.

In the second instance, he confided to a probation officer that he wanted to tie up social workers, hold them hostage and set traps for police when they come to free them.

Shupe is awaiting sentencing on the convictions. As part of his bail conditions, the Crown sought to keep him away from social workers, making his only contact through a lawyer.

His lawyer, Don Campbell, said Shupe doesn’t want contact with Secwepemc Child & Family Services and would like the file transferred to another First Nations social agency in the city.

“He’s forced to go there because his children are in their care. Secwepemc Child & Family Services holds the key to any contact with his children.”

Shupe is involved in a separate family court proceeding regarding contact with his children.

Campbell said the agency “doesn’t want anything to do with him but they cling tenaciously to his file.”

Judge Edmond de Walle ruled that as part of bail conditions that Shupe have no direct or indirect contact with staff or family from the agency and he is banned from being within 100 metres of its offices.

He will be sentenced on the charges of uttering threats at a later date.

Source:
kamloopsnews.ca/article/20131211/

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