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I have been documenting everything that has been happening with my daughter/her mother. Iam going through with A motion to Change for Access. In the affidavit how much information should I be submitting? What I mean is I have everything from times picked up how long visits, ... access page ...

Anonymous Please
I have been documenting everything that has been happening with my daughter/her mother. Iam going through with A motion to Change for Access. In the affidavit how much information should I be submitting? What I mean is I have everything from times picked up how long visits, exes fly what what said and by who, you excuses why my daughter won’t visit after having a great visit the time before.

I’m also asking for every other weekend and Wednesday after school her mother’s proposal was 1 Saturday & 1 Sunday a month 11-5 at specific place of her choice and when ever 11 year old wants to visit. I’m just unsure what all to include in the motion & affidavit.


Thanks for your time

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

I realize for a quick solution but it is not an adequate one, since many cannot and will not do this. The Government and courts will still do what they do no matter if you own something or not, thus why we need to make changes. The courts assume they know all the angles people try and they will c... access page ...

I realize for a quick solution but it is not an adequate one, since many cannot and will not do this. The Government and courts will still do what they do no matter if you own something or not, thus why we need to make changes. The courts assume they know all the angles people try and they will continue to try and take money and assets away no mater what, and they do this WITHOUT Due Process, which is the fundamentals are facts and evidence. This is why we need to shut down these courts, they do not abide by anything, and they do whatever they like to innocent people just trying to live, so trying to put a bandage on a huge wound is not going to cut it anymore. To many lives have been destroyed, to many children's lives have been destroyed, to many have lost their lives, so the only way is to organize in numbers, get our stories out, and make changes. REFORM REFORM REFORM !!!!

I see these posts from extremely angry fathers. Yet every time there is an inquiry in to the situation for someone to offer advice or share similar circumstances, the thread goes quiet. Why is that? To me, it is the same thing the mothers are being accused of- a false or misleading accusation fro... access page ...

I see these posts from extremely angry fathers. Yet every time there is an inquiry in to the situation for someone to offer advice or share similar circumstances, the thread goes quiet. Why is that? To me, it is the same thing the mothers are being accused of- a false or misleading accusation from a spurned parent looking for validation. And because of this, these individuals make the process we need to overcome that much larger. We need to be better. We can not push or demand change if we ourselves are violating the same principles we expect for us.

A look at history provided an insight into a group of '12 Angry Men' from the US which pushed for a Class Action suit to change the Family Court Laws. It did not happen.

Why? Because it was proven during depositions that 7 of these men manufactured their situations and could not factually substantiate the burden of proof needed for claims being made. 5 fathers with good intentions lost out due to the actions of others. To make things even worse, 2 of the 7 were subsequently found in Contempt Ex Facie.

So I have decided to help do exactly what these Support Groups were meant to accomplish- Advocate and Support the parents that have SUBSTANTIATED CLAIMS. How? The Court of Justice Act provides transparency through Public Access of Family Court Files stating the public is entitled to see any current list maintained by the court of family cases, documents filed in a family case, or any orders signed, unless a statutory provision, common law rule or court order restricts access. Through this mechanism and FIPPA, I was able to locate and initially request the files of 5 family cases in Ontario that are of significant interest based on public comments or advice given from personal experience that has been provided in posts- 1 each in Brampton, St Thomas, Guelph, Thunder Bay and Kingston, giving a good provincial comparison.

I truly hope the information conforms to their description of events and leaves us revitalized to continue to push forward, rather than set us back with more unfounded rhetoric and will provide insight as information become available.

I asked my ex to pay his support a week early so that I get it on the first of the month so I'm able to make my rent, he agrees goes directly into fro to pay in cash on the 29th of January today is February 4th his account says overdue and I still have yet to see the payment. Fro really needs to ... access page ...

I asked my ex to pay his support a week early so that I get it on the first of the month so I'm able to make my rent, he agrees goes directly into fro to pay in cash on the 29th of January today is February 4th his account says overdue and I still have yet to see the payment. Fro really needs to get their act together

my worker tells me they put it in my account on the 31st but their system says he just paid today so now I'm not getting it till Wednesday

 I know he paid in cash at 11:40 Tuesday day morning he is court ordered to pay on the 1st and can receive jail time if he's late and their system is saying he did not pay until the 4th which makes him late

Now that me and my ex are getting along and he's paying I'm actually thinking of withdrawing from fro I depend on that money to make my rent and I hate paying late and it's sad when my ex goes out of his way to make sure I get that money for my rent and fro can even do their job and send it on time

Prolonging the conflict adds to the billable hours and allows opposing counsel to entrench any "status quo" that may be in their client's favor.

Prolonging the conflict adds to the billable hours and allows opposing counsel to entrench any "status quo" that may be in their client's favor.

My son has been totally screwed by the family court, I have spent thousands on lawyers for him, but he hasn't seen his kids in over 3 years.

The bitches lawyer is one of those that encourages his clients to violate court orders as it is well know that the courts will take no action aga... access page ...

My son has been totally screwed by the family court, I have spent thousands on lawyers for him, but he hasn't seen his kids in over 3 years.

The bitches lawyer is one of those that encourages his clients to violate court orders as it is well know that the courts will take no action against the mother. We know this first hand after taking her to court for contempt, meeting all requirements according to the judge who then decided to not bother finding her in contempt.

At every appearance, the same thing, her lawyer is only available in later afternoons, then agrees that all other cases can go ahead, when the case comes up, blah, blah, blah, check time, blah, blah, blah, check time, time is short, suggest that the case be put over, soonest he is available, 3 or 4 months, status quo until then, a request for costs.

Repeat the following appearance, costs again. His methods, keep the father away for so long by violating orders and dragging things out, lies, false accusations, his paid for expert testimony, and then when the father hasn't seen his children for years, suggest to the courts that the father has no interest, has been out of the kids lives for so long, the kids have settled in without the father he should never see the kids.

My son is now in a position where there is a financial gag in place, unless he comes up with over $100,000 he can't even bring a motion to the courts.

I have gotten heavily involved in provincial politics in Ontario to try to make changes on that front, I donated money and campaigned for my local MPP and helped make sure she got elected, I am on my riding association as a director, I attended the PC Party convention last November where I handed out fliers about corruption in the family court system, I talked with a lot of high ranking government officials including Premier Ford.

I attended the swearing in ceremony for my municipal government as I knew the family court judge would be there and I ripped a strip off her in front of her friends.

Someone must be doing something, and I want to help. My wife passed away without being able to see her grandkids, I want to make sure that they know all about her, and I want to be the one that tells them.

So who is doing what? What can I do to help?

• My son's X wife refused to follow a court order for access to his kids. Repeated attempts to see the kids were blocked by the X. He took her to court in the Family court system, in Cambridge ON, before Judge P. Hardman. He was told that to get a finding of contempt, certain conditions... access page ...

• My son's X wife refused to follow a court order for access to his kids. Repeated attempts to see the kids were blocked by the X. He took her to court in the Family court system, in Cambridge ON, before Judge P. Hardman. He was told that to get a finding of contempt, certain conditions had to be met:

  • There had to be a valid court order issues by a court having jurisdiction
  • The person charged with contempt had to be aware of the order
  • The person charged had to be informed that they were in contempt and given the opportunity to correct their actions
  • The person charged had to continue to violate the order.

  The judge stated the following:

  • She had issued the order, and it was a valid order
  • She had directly spoke to the mother ensuring that she understood the order
  • The mother was informed that they were in contempt but did not change their actions
  • The mother continued to violate the court order

  The judge then went on to say that while all requirements for a contempt charge had been proven, she the judge did not believe that a finding of contempt would advance the case in the family court system, therefore she would not issue a finding of contempt. She also continued on to say that she didn’t think a finding of contempt would convince the mother to obey the orders anyways, so she wasn’t going to waste her time issuing a finding of contempt.

  Armed with the assurance that the court system would take no action against her, she made life Hell for my son, he hasn't seen his kids in over 3 years, and the same for me. Just to give an idea as to what this person is like, we requested, through the lawyers, that my wife have the opportunity to see her grandchildren before she died, the bitch said no. I lost my wife almost 4 years ago, she passed away without being able to see our grandkids.

Show this to your so called great family Court system, " in the best interest of the child, bull crap! " you have your Canadian government to thank for that. Your court system is making big money off of these Cases!

My husband and I live in the States but his ex-wife lives in Ontario.... access page ...

Show this to your so called great family Court system, " in the best interest of the child, bull crap! " you have your Canadian government to thank for that. Your court system is making big money off of these Cases!

My husband and I live in the States but his ex-wife lives in Ontario. I'm familiar the horrible Canadian family Courts all to well.