Was just reading about a parent who finally had contact with their child after several years. The child was hateful, going on what he/she had been told for so long by the Alienator and probably their Enablers. This Target Parent remained calm and loving , though in pain! It is sad, but so very im... access page ...

Was just reading about a parent who finally had contact with their child after several years. The child was hateful, going on what he/she had been told for so long by the Alienator and probably their Enablers. This Target Parent remained calm and loving , though in pain! It is sad, but so very important to never retaliate and speak evil against the other parent, no matter how much you want to or how true it is. Show your children who the loving parent is by actions and kindness... You don't have to like the Alienator, just don't run them into the ground to your child.. They have been living with that enough, under the Alienator's roof!

This one has always bothered me. I have rarely seen a man try to take credit on Mothers Day for his role as a parent..but I have seen a lot of women do it on Fathers Day. Many of whom, are Alienators playing the Victim Card! I would almost like to see these two money making Holidays compiled into... access page ...

This one has always bothered me. I have rarely seen a man try to take credit on Mothers Day for his role as a parent..but I have seen a lot of women do it on Fathers Day. Many of whom, are Alienators playing the Victim Card! I would almost like to see these two money making Holidays compiled into a single day..say "Parents Day". Even that is a painful thought for so many parents Moms and Dads, who are kept from their children!


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Here we are in the month of June, where there's a special day to honor the male parent in our lives who who often receive a lot less credit, and way more bashing than us moms. Now, of course there are a few guys who don't deserve the title of being a dad simply because they gave a woman a few minutes of their time while in the heat of a moment. To that point, there are also some women who aren't worthy of the "mommy" title, even some whose children actually live with them.

The main difference, is that moms are celebrated differently. Whether they're a bad mom, decent mom, good mom or great mom, Mother's Day is just a much bigger deal than Father's Day has ever been, and possibly more than it ever will be. What''s even more interesting (based on limited research) is that, Mother's Day was proclaimed to be a national holiday in about 1905, whereas Father's Day wasn't recognized as such until somewhere arond 1972 (after more than 60 years of being proposed.)

Still to this day, millions of dollars are spent on Mother's Day. Restaurants, spas and other venues are packed with several generations of family members celebrating the most important people in their lives. On Father's Day, a few people decide to go out, or BBQ, or do something, but not nearly as much as Mother's Day. It's not because more women are good mothers than men are good fathers, it's just because fathers are often seen as "second class parents." Many children, especially those raised in single parent homes, tend to favor the parent they reside with, often the mother in most cases. Fathers are often limited to weekend visits, and of course calls whenever the child wants or needs something.  Some of this may be their own fault of course, but not always.What's even worse, is that many women tend to use children as pawns out of resentment or even hatred toward the father. They treat children as nothing more than a bargaining chip as a way of paying the father back, but for what. For impregnating them in the first place? For giving them the child who the swear up and down is their blessing? I don't know too many people who are permanently scorned from a blessing, but to each her own.

I always found it ironic that many men are ridiculed for impregnating women who they have no intention of marrying or having any type of future with. Yet, women who allow themselves to be impregnated (or don't take the precautions to prevent it) with these same men who they know good and well aren't looking for anything from them but a fling, and are considered victims.

Now I know that there are many men out here who are truly trifling and don't deserve credit for parenting on any day of the year, but that doesn't mean we should spend Father's Day bashing them. It's supposed to be a day to celebrate the true fathers and father figures in the world. As a woman who has a great father, who at one point had no idea where his children were, I am quite sensitive to the bashing of fathers, unless they truly deserve it. Even still, Father's Day isn't the day for that.

I'm not in any way taking credit away from single parents, moms and dads alike. This parenting stuff isn't easy and I truly tip my hat to any person who has the strength and willingness to do it all alone. I just wish that Father's Day could be more about celebrating the many men out here who would go to the end of earth for their children, biological or not. So many good men are out here not only raising their children, but children who other men left behind either by choice, circumstance or death. Those men are the ones who deserve to be celebrated.

I'm proud to say that Go-2-Daddy is an amazing father. He's the one who gets Go-2-baby up and dressed each day while I'm at work. His career is more flexible than mine, so he's able to drop her off and pick her up each day. They have special rituals that only they understand, I love the way she admires him and stands up for him even at the young age of two. I couldn't imagine being that woman who would bash him or try to hurt him by keeping her away from him. In the end, I know I'd be hurting my child the most. This Father's Day, lets try to give a little more props to the good dads out here. They truly deserve it more than the guys who are ultimately missing out on the greatest part of life for the people they helped to create.

Ladies, we had our day in May, let's let the guys have this one. If you're a single mom, I'm sure your children appreciate you for going above and beyond to compensate for what their father may not be doing for whatever reason. Of course I know many of you will continue to celebrate Father's Day as you please, and with the help of Hallmark, there's now even a few "Father's Day for Mom" cards on the market that I'm sure many people will be buying.  I just hope that there can be less focus on bashing the no good men, and more on celebrating the many great fathers out here.


Source:
chicagonow.com/go-2-mommy/2014/06

Missing my granddaughter! This is a horrible pain that is with me when I go to sleep and there when I wake up. Sometimes it doesn't wait for morning..it sneaks into my dreams. Sometimes it is so unbearable it wakes me up.. other times it is beautiful and so full of happiness that upon waking ..I ... access page ...

Missing my granddaughter! This is a horrible pain that is with me when I go to sleep and there when I wake up. Sometimes it doesn't wait for morning..it sneaks into my dreams. Sometimes it is so unbearable it wakes me up.. other times it is beautiful and so full of happiness that upon waking ..I feel cheated and used! What did I ever do to deserve this.. What has any other person who loves their children and grandchildren.. ever done to deserve this???

It's so painful at times. I'm sure it gives our Alienators great joy to see us hurting. I pray to be able to see my granddaughter and hold her ..but I often pray a prayer, asking that she not forget me or become clouded by any lies told her. I find it very therapeutic to help others, especially in this arena.. but there are moments like now when it sneaks up on me and catches me off guard.

I have a grandson by my step daughter who I have a wonderful relationship with.. the little stinker. And I have my only granddaughter by my younger son. I haven't seen her in over a year and a half and she lives two towns over. It's why I fight so hard for others. I know what that pain is like!

My granddaughter has a bedroom here in our home. I sometimes sit in there and visualize her playing with her toys. I pray in there a lot, too. I remember Jason Patric doing a video in his little boy's room and thinking how , Not Alone we all are!

How the courts continue to let monsters like this raise the children is beyond me. These perpetual or habitual victims need to be prosecuted for defamation of character and slander! They should be the ones with supervised visits! .... I am a proponent for 50/50 shared parenting, except in the cas... access page ...

How the courts continue to let monsters like this raise the children is beyond me. These perpetual or habitual victims need to be prosecuted for defamation of character and slander! They should be the ones with supervised visits! .... I am a proponent for 50/50 shared parenting, except in the case of true abuse or false accusations of abuse!

I have been fighting this war on Alienation for sometime now. Along the way I have heard many stories and theories. Yes, the children suffer the most because they are young and at the heart of the issue... But, NEVER ..say that Visitation is mainly for them and not the parent who no longer lives ... access page ...

I have been fighting this war on Alienation for sometime now. Along the way I have heard many stories and theories. Yes, the children suffer the most because they are young and at the heart of the issue... But, NEVER ..say that Visitation is mainly for them and not the parent who no longer lives with them! Visitation is for both children and their nonresidential parent. Visitation should be for the parent/child bonding experience that is their Right!

Both parents are responsible for the birth and raising of their children. Loving parents who wish to be a part of their children's lives should not suffer to be visitors in them because the other parent and our Injustice System abuses whatever power is allotted them.

I also don't want to hear how nonresidential parents need to concede that maybe it is them with the problem and that they need parenting classes , anger management etc. etc. etc... Oh I know for a fact there are unfit parents out there, but I also know that many of them have custody of the children...

If I remember correctly the other side went on a crusade to denounce Vincent on Line. I remember some smear attacks about a year ago. The aggressive nature of the attacks only furthered my belief that he was the victim....Not Her!

If I remember correctly the other side went on a crusade to denounce Vincent on Line. I remember some smear attacks about a year ago. The aggressive nature of the attacks only furthered my belief that he was the victim....Not Her!