I’m so sorry that happened to you it’s very similar to my story only no children thank god. I can imagine what you’ve been through I know that pain and betrayal, the confusion all too well when you find out you shared your life with a lie… I hope things have gotten better, I wish I could say they ha...
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I’m so sorry that happened to you it’s very similar to my story only no children thank god. I can imagine what you’ve been through I know that pain and betrayal, the confusion all too well when you find out you shared your life with a lie… I hope things have gotten better, I wish I could say they have for me but the pain is still there and broke who I was as a person, rebuilding your life after a second person that you never dreamed of harming accused me of domestic violence and labeled me their abuser. She used to cry and thank me for coming into her life, I used to be sad thinking what if we never met and missed our chance, but it was all her future faking promises and love bombing, she claims to be a victim of everyone and eveyone in her life was eirher boarder line or a narcissistic or both and abused and stalked her,,, guess what she said about me… she setup the police thing behind my back this rich insane little girl is losing about going to a domestic shelter for battered women and drug addicted, I mean it’s a little comical but not when it’s your life,,, she tried to get a restraining order after I was done and she did it a month later anyway because I backed up picture to a shard photo album I owned… like is court to break up with people and never have to face them now?? Even our lawyers were giggling it was so humiliating just having to go, the judge didn’t even grant it to her and my ex is a doey eyed little victim eveyone wants to take care of it’s how she lures people in pretends, mimicks them I can’t believe all I’ve learned since and how everything she did was step by step like an abuse flow chart and she still claims to be the victim it broke my life and soul and transference shouldn’t be real but I lost 50 pounds snow and I look sad and worried all the time I hate how my face has changed and how I stutter and fall over from panic I never experienced ptsd or trauma like this and I don’t get it how is it sk bad how was she so insidious and then so cruel l, it drove me crazy literally she did it on purpose to say I was crazy she’s not some master mind you just never imagine someone is going to lie fundamentally for years, then tourture and try to punish you for some power and control they crave… She kept saying that who needs powe and control or thinks about that from a partner? Psychos it’s all a game to the other people are like their toys they can break when they get bored. Anyway sorry for venting I’m going through more hard times and barely hanging kn but it’s good to know I’m not alone, take care of yourself thanks for sharing again
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